In January, my husband and I are going to be celebrating six years together. In that time, we’ve managed to have three kids. In fact, our first will be five in February. Yes, you read that right – we will have a five year old when we’ve only been together for six years. We moved fast. In fact, some thing we jumped the gun, as I fell pregnant after knowing my husband only three months!
The truth is that we both have very healthy sexual appetites. In fact, having both been married previously, our sexual compatibility is one of the main things that drew us together and has kept us going through three hard pregnancies, years of breastfeeding and moving halfway across the world – twice!
In fact, it was only after our third son was born a little over a year ago that our sex life seemed to slow down. Going from two kids to three kind of took its toll on both of us. Less sleep and more stress led to a lack of intimacy that was really out of character. We were living in a tiny little house and both working long hours, and it seemed like sex was just one thing too many for us to work on. With more stress and less time for things like the gym or healthy cooking, I also put on some weight, which made me even less likely to want to indulge in some hanky panky.
Then, a couple of months ago, I made the decision to have a breast reduction. It required me to give up breastfeeding cold turkey, and it threw my hormones skewiff. A long recovery meant sex was not even an option for us, and I think our relationship suffered a bit. When I was finally cleared to get “back in the saddle” so to speak, I hesitated. I wasn’t even sure I could do it. I just didn’t feel in the mood.
I was sent Fiera® to try right in the middle of my recovery. It promised to amplify my desire to have sex, revamp my sex life and change my view toward sex. I thought it was at least worth a go. If it didn’t work, I’d be no worse off, and if it did, it might just save a stale marriage!
So what is Fiera® you ask? To put it simply, it’s a new class of product meant for “before-play,” using a unique combination of soft suction and stimulating vibration to make you want to have sex. You can use it discreetly by yourself or incorporate it into your love life as a teaser for your significant other. In fact, I highly recommend doing so. My husband was completely turned on by me talking about how I would be using it on myself without his input.
Fiera® is a small, fast acting, hands-free product that is designed to encourage blood flow and lubrication, warming up women’s body for a more satisfying intimate experience. And it really does just that. Without getting too graphic, the sensation is pretty similar to receiving oral sex, but it’s definitely more discreet!
Fiera® recognizes that women may need an extra touch to help get your mind and body in the mood. Women’s sexual wellness is not addressed as often as it should be, and there’s no reason to be embarrassed about our sexual drive (or lack thereof!). Whether you are finding intimacy difficult or you just want to enhance what is already there, this handy little product is great for keeping you sexually stimulated.
At the end of the day, I can say with some assurance that the product is a wonderful addition to the bedroom. It has been very convenient for us as an aid in restoring our vigor, and I would recommend it to any woman who might want to try something a little different. It may be just the thing you’re looking for.
I was selected for this opportunity as a member of Clever Girls and the content and opinions expressed here are all my own.