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Pregnancy Diary – 16 Weeks

by Katie Reed

So today I am 16 weeks pregnant. What does that look like, I hear you ask?

Well, it looks a little like this:

16 week baby bump

Forgive the major fear face. My brother left a comment on my Facebook to say that “You look absolutely terrified of your own reflection.”  My (very honest) response? “That’s because I’m mentally berating myself for the 20 lb difference between this pregnancy and the last one!”

Yes, it is true that there is a little more of me to love this time around. In fact, I dug out my 16 week photo from the first pregnancy just so you can compare:

16 week baby bump

Of course, I also looked like this when I was 2 weeks pregnant last time:

Pre Pregnancy Photo

Doesn’t it just make you want to cry!? I will never have that body again! *sigh*

Anyway, I figured that I’m now far enough into this pregnancy to start keeping track of all the stuff that’s going on in a sort of weekly wrap up. I know that I tend to look online for other people’s experiences at various stages of pregnancy, so perhaps this will help others who are looking for a bit of information about what it’s all like.

Physically:

  • I have a small bump which is situated like a tiny shelf just below my belly button. It is more obvious what is bump and what is fat when I’m laying down. Since the bottom of my belly stretches out due to the uterus, it pulls the upper fat flap out which gives me a much larger look. In a dress it is ESPECIALLY overstated. But the bump is actually not as big as it looks.
  • My morning sickness, which took a lovely several weeks-long break, has returned, and I’ve been violently ill after nearly every meal lately. It is vile and I hate it. The other night, I was barfing so hard that I got a nosebleed! Not awesome.
  • Sleeping is highly uncomfortable these days, and I find myself tossing and turning for most of the night. I am also obsessively thirsty and have to sleep with a litre of water next to my bed so that I can hydrate myself during my sleep.
  • Due in part to the aforementioned litre of water during the night and the baby sitting on my bladder AND the constant tossing and turning, I am up and down quite often to use the bathroom.
  • My body hair has taken to growing thick and fast, meaning I have to shave three times a day to have any relief from the constant prickles! I would just ignore it if not for the fact that we live in Florida and it is ungodly hot, forcing me to wear shorts at all times.
  • My skin has rebelled against me and become dry and flaky (even more so than usual!) and feels constantly itchy.
  • My hair has rebelled, as well, and I now have the look of a very greasy and gross teenager.

Emotionally:

  • I’ve been having a hard time emotionally this time around. While I am exceptionally in love with my unborn baby, I am also finding it hard to accept the fact I’m really pregnant or that everything is well. I keep expecting something terrible to happen.
  • This emotional turmoil has been worse due to the antibiotics I was forced to take for the infection that I had a few weeks ago. Knowing that I was taking a drug that could cause some problems for the baby has made me more wary, and I’ve not been able to relax. Maybe once we have the 20 week scan and I know that all is still as it should be…
  • I cry. A lot. This happened in the last pregnancy, as well, and it is very disconcerting since I am the type of person who really holds her emotions inside most of the time. The other day, I was randomly flipping through movies and hit on the animated musical, Anastasia. In seconds, I was in floods of tears, hysterically sobbing because I couldn’t stop thinking about the slaughter of the Romanovs.  This happens a lot.
  • I am also overwhelmed. Everything feels like a big deal to me. Even keeping up with this blog has proven difficult, though I’ve no shortage of fun subjects to write about. I just can’t bring myself to do it! Part of that is due to low energy. But mostly it is just this general feeling of being overworked.

So that’s pretty much my sixteen weeks in a nutshell. I do not feel glamorous or like I am “glowing,” despite my lovely fiance assuring me that I am gorgeous and blooming. I just feel run down and gross.

BUT – and this is a really big but (let’s face it, I got a lot of butt these days!) – I am happy. Not the kind of happy that sees you smiling wide every second of the day and bouncing along telling everyone how great life is… but the kind of happy that allows me to appreciate my fabulous partner, my gorgeous son and my new role as incubator. I have a lot to be thankful for, and I don’t take it for granted.

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20 comments

Jenny September 13, 2012 - 9:45 pm

I think you look great! Besides, people always say that with your second you show faster and more. It was true for me..I was in maternity clothes 3 months in with my second baby. I’ve been following your blog and have been meaning to comment like a 1000 times what you have been going through, so now finally here I am. It’s not like you’ve had the easiest, stress free pregnancy so far, but you prevail! Don’t be so hard on yourself. You just do the best you can!! (oh and you can totally have that body back 🙂 )

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Katie Vyktoriah September 14, 2012 - 12:35 pm

Aw, thank you hon. Honestly, it makes me feel much better when I get supportive people reminding me that it’s not all about how you look, but how you are doing something amazing. It’s too easy to forget that! 🙂

xx

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Jenny September 13, 2012 - 9:45 pm

I think you look great! Besides, people always say that with your second you show faster and more. It was true for me..I was in maternity clothes 3 months in with my second baby. I’ve been following your blog and have been meaning to comment like a 1000 times what you have been going through, so now finally here I am. It’s not like you’ve had the easiest, stress free pregnancy so far, but you prevail! Don’t be so hard on yourself. You just do the best you can!! (oh and you can totally have that body back 🙂 )

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Katie Vyktoriah September 14, 2012 - 12:35 pm

Aw, thank you hon. Honestly, it makes me feel much better when I get supportive people reminding me that it’s not all about how you look, but how you are doing something amazing. It’s too easy to forget that! 🙂

xx

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knitnrun September 14, 2012 - 5:49 am

I am going to simply reflect what Jenny says. Your body knows what to do the second time around and so things happen quicker. I don’t think that you should worry about your figure at all. Your body has done / is doing THE most amazing thing ever and therefore deserves respect (oh, by the way your body means you as you are inseparable!) so be kind to you and your body and stop stressing. your pregnancy is quite stressful so don’t add on extras!! Take care of yourself. Hugs xx

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Katie Vyktoriah September 14, 2012 - 12:36 pm

Thank you sweetie. I need to keep these pep talks on file for days when I’m feeling blue and remember that it’s not all about the looks so much as the importance of what I’m actually doing – creating life! 🙂 Big hugs and thanks again! x

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knitnrun September 14, 2012 - 5:49 am

I am going to simply reflect what Jenny says. Your body knows what to do the second time around and so things happen quicker. I don’t think that you should worry about your figure at all. Your body has done / is doing THE most amazing thing ever and therefore deserves respect (oh, by the way your body means you as you are inseparable!) so be kind to you and your body and stop stressing. your pregnancy is quite stressful so don’t add on extras!! Take care of yourself. Hugs xx

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Katie Vyktoriah September 14, 2012 - 12:36 pm

Thank you sweetie. I need to keep these pep talks on file for days when I’m feeling blue and remember that it’s not all about the looks so much as the importance of what I’m actually doing – creating life! 🙂 Big hugs and thanks again! x

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Bex @ The Mummy Adventure September 14, 2012 - 2:01 pm

I have the same thing that bump looks huge standing up and little lying down but I love having a big round belly so am showing it off all I can. We must be due at a similar time so looking forward to reading more updates

x

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Katie Vyktoriah September 15, 2012 - 2:12 pm

I think you might be slightly ahead of me, but who knows when the little sprogs will actually pop out! 🙂 I, too, am loving the big belly, so I wear LOTS of dresses to make sure I accentuate it! 😉

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Bex @ The Mummy Adventure September 14, 2012 - 2:01 pm

I have the same thing that bump looks huge standing up and little lying down but I love having a big round belly so am showing it off all I can. We must be due at a similar time so looking forward to reading more updates

x

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Katie Vyktoriah September 15, 2012 - 2:12 pm

I think you might be slightly ahead of me, but who knows when the little sprogs will actually pop out! 🙂 I, too, am loving the big belly, so I wear LOTS of dresses to make sure I accentuate it! 😉

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Susan Mann September 19, 2012 - 5:30 am

You look great, both past and present. Enjoy the ride x

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Katie Vyktoriah September 19, 2012 - 8:01 am

Thank you, Susan. It’s lovely of you to say. x

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Susan Mann September 19, 2012 - 5:30 am

You look great, both past and present. Enjoy the ride x

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Katie Vyktoriah September 19, 2012 - 8:01 am

Thank you, Susan. It’s lovely of you to say. x

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Caroljs September 19, 2012 - 6:15 am

Its a lovely bump they do say you show earlier in your second pregnancy. Thanks for taking part in Bumps Watch x

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Katie Vyktoriah September 19, 2012 - 8:01 am

Thank you hon. I did expect to show sooner, but I had no idea I’d show quite so much! 😉 Thanks for hosting!

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Caroljs September 19, 2012 - 6:15 am

Its a lovely bump they do say you show earlier in your second pregnancy. Thanks for taking part in Bumps Watch x

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Katie Vyktoriah September 19, 2012 - 8:01 am

Thank you hon. I did expect to show sooner, but I had no idea I’d show quite so much! 😉 Thanks for hosting!

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